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Sometime relationship between you
and friends or eve your mom will not always be going well. You may sometime
stuck in some problems that make you down and bad enough. Getting angry or
arguing sometime is just normal. It is part of emotional learning. Having
different opinion and some clashes are also normal. We are human living are
blessed with unbelievable emotion so that what we gotta do is that how we train it better. We actually should not hate or just hit and slam them also being
sarcasm to the ones that really make us even angrier. But the way you face the relationship
problem should depend on what problem actually you are dealing with
There are many kinds of the problems
that may happen between you and your friends even with your mom. If you have a
problem just for example a clash because you only have miscommunication or something
so that you both with your friend have different idea and you become angry to
them. So, it is a simple problem! Just need the time to talk that again! But how if it
is with your mother like when you want something that you really desire but
your mother say no? It is quite a problem and you should find the way to get out.
If it is a hard problem like when you love someone but your mother say no because
he is just a jobless, or something but he is a kind a good hearted and you
really love him, then just ask your mom to believe you! Do everything to pursue
your mom agreement. Even when you are needed to use radical way so you can use
your silence like just keep silence to her and punish! It may be working as
well!
But, when you have your friends
stab you on your back like they cheat on you on something really crucial, then you
are so angry with them like you wanna end up the relationship, then it is okay
you can go on. You know this could be not your fault. You need to find their
motive why did they do this to you. A pure friend should be giving you all their
reasons. You can end up the relationship
as friends but you cannot end the relationship between human. That is do obvious!.
This could be a difficult time for you knowing your friend just like cheat on
you or just like stabbing you on your back. Make sure that you know how to
release your all disappointment because it is naturally human can make mistake
even huge ones!
Then, what are you going to do if
your mom never understands for what you want? You know you need to think twice
for what actually is happening with you for what you want! You can talk to her
for clearly the reason why. You should not talk it out loud but logic. Sometime
parents too much protective to their daughters so that it may hurt them for
sure. But parents would never mean it actually, so jus go talk, questioning and
asking. Never do such too much extreme ways to get their attentions. These may
cause some worst problems for you and your family. Good luck then!
