SHORT STORY FOR INDONESIAN INDEPENDENCE DAY! MERDEKA!

WAR FOR INDEPENDENCE

A Shot Sory Written By Aghniya Nazhara K 8 E SMP Islam Al Azhar 26 Yogyakarta

Once upon a time, there was a girl namely Seila. She is a nice person. She is smart in math lesson but there was one lesson that she just hates it. She always thinks that the struggle of the heroes is not important because we don’t need to feel the pain anymore. One day when it was PKN lesson on going, the teacher informed that the class will hold the examination next week. “ AHH come on why we need to have PKN lesson in this world.” Said Seila while walking home from school. “ Huh finally I am home hoaaaaaaaaaaaaaam I am so tired maybe I will sleep for half hours doesn’t matter”. A few minutes later her mother comes and wakes her up” Seila wake up and arrange your book now”.

“Hmmm Mom 5 minutes again okay?  Begged Seila

“No now come on and do what I said” said Mom

“Alright Alright” replied Seila with a little bit with sad voice

Seila was shock when she look at the schedule that tomorrow she is going to have PKN lesson examination. “ Oh My God, I hate this lesson so much” said Seila while slight;y slamming PKN  BOOK. The book fell on the floor and it is open on the page about the war. With a blink of an eye there was a small black hole that instantly sucks Seila the hole. When she opened her eyes, she wasn’t in her home ahain. She doesn’t know where she was when she stood up that there was a hand that pulled her hand and made her sit back.” Hey, what are you doing?” Said Seila little bit mad.

“What did you said?? And what do you mean to stand up? Is it now a war? Should I go for the war? “ said Seila.

“Who are you? I am Siti. This is Indonesia our country. We are now in war and you have to be in with me.” Said Siti

“Wait! What? What do you mean? You are sick, no way, you are kidding me!” replied Seila

“ I am no kidding, this is not a time to tell a joke. Look around you! I say be careful now. We are in war situation”. Said Siti.

Seila was looking at the situation around and she knew that what Siti said is a real situation.

Seila said, “ Oh My God this is real! But How can I be here in this war time. I don’t want to die. This is so scarry I want to go back to my real world!.

“I think you will be ok If you win” replied Siti.

“I don’t want to die like this” shout Seila

“ We do war to save our grandchildren to save this land from invaders. We must take our land and be independent” said Siti with her very confident voice.

“Oh my god, now I understand why I need to appreciate heroes. I saw so many people died here, so many people like me hiding in a very dark cave to save life” confessed Seila.

A blind bullet hit Siti chest and it made Seila shocked. Seila called Siti and she woke up. She felt grateful because it was just a dream. By that time, Seila now always appreciates the Heroes and love to have KN lesson in her school.   

Jared Letto into Joker, Is he successful performing the character?

Jared Letto our favorite Joker. Is he good role playing Joker? Let's we look at Jared Letto make up on his character Joker. He has bald eyebrow but what do you think? is he still looking cool? Why yes since her fixture is perfectly good although it really changes her appearance for sure. He looks crazy but he also looks stunning for sure. His pale skin is just so stunning for him. His Jocker character is so true for him. For some people merely do not recognize that the Jocker is Jared Letto. His crazy character is also into him. He is kinda of cool man ever and in the character he turns into really crazy character. He would get 8-9 point for his crazy role character for sure.

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Crazy character of Jocker acted by Jared Letto should be not as well as the previous Jocker character. But, it is really suitable him since the character of Harley Quinn is coming out in the movie of Suicide Squad thus Jocker Letto is really match the personal character in this movie.The crazy romance of Jocker Letto and Harley Quinn are perfect. It is said from the other resources that Jared is really committing to be Jocker anyway. He is really good and good to be matched with Harley Quinn. In the scene where he shoots his friend in the club and there is Harley Quinn teasing is friend, his acting is not really naturally crazy, and he needs to appeal more his jealousy toward his friend since his friend finally realized that Harley Quinn is Joker's lady.

See next review of the Jocker Letto Character in the next post!

Western Baby Shower vs Eastern Baby Shower

Baby shower like you used to know is like the party occasion for pregnant mom.  This kind of the occasion is actually been aimed to support pregnant mom during her pregnacy and her upcoming baby birth. Baby shower for western culture just like the guests are about the buy the presents according to the gift listed provided by the baby shower host. In the occasion of baby shower, there is usually baby shower game for the attending guests for the main occasion. But how about baby shower in eastern culture?  So, let we see below.

Baby shower in eastern culture like in Indonesia especially for Javanese called selapanan. So, this kind of baby shower is done after the 35 th day of birth of baby. In the selpanan occasion, there would be guests who may or may not bring the gifts and the selapanan baby shower host would never give any gift lists for the guests. So,  in selapanan occasion is like a ritual for the baby. Teh first occasion is that the parents who are father and mother cut little for baby's hair then grand parents or older families of the baby would bald up the hair.  It is believed that the hair should grow better after that.

The second occasion would be done in the evening at after 06.00 pm. This occasion would be the next ritual that is cutting baby's nails. Then,  baby shower host would share banvakan which is the main food that is a symbol of selapanan. Bancakan is a symbol of teh gratitude to God for baby born and alos for baby luck.  The foods in bancakan is packed in the small box. There are salad,  meat curry,  rice, fried chicken,  and others. 

In addition,  the differences between western and easter baby shower are the first is both baby showers are held in the different time and purpose and the second is western one is for support and eastern is for a pray. 

How To Overcome Quarter Life Crisis?

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Hi, today in this post I’m going to tell you my life experiences while now I am still in my quarter life crisis. Basically I feel those fluctuated mood and some kinda emotional thing! Honestly, being in the age of twenties, we may have bucket plans and dreams that we got to do. In this twenties, we may ever compare our self to the others seem like we do not want to one step left from our friends. Being in the age of twenties we are facing so many life decisions and choices where we actually this time is a starting point for everything that we got to do for our future. Many of our friends are married and when yours? This could be such a suck question for us. Even many people are about to ask for where we work or even they may as have you graduated from your college? And where do you work? And many!

Those kinds of question are unavoidable questions which I believe that you may already ever been asked like that.  We may feel too much emotional or something. We often focus on people questioning about our life progress. Hey… hey..  don’t push yourself away in emotional feeling. Remember that it is just our phase that we need to go through. Say it! People do not understand this kind of the life crisis phase. This time in these twenties we suffer such emotional feeling which is significant in psychology. As I give you a tips to overcome is that just deny people questioning about you, about anything related to your future. Just keep focus and add your knowledge about everything.

The next tip for you to overcome this quarter life crisis is that we pray and ask for God for our best and happy future.  Believe it or not, we can reduce our too much emotional feeling on doing everything. Sometime, we may have fluctuate emotion which is really exhausting. Read some books also get the best knowledge from best. Other than that, you do not need to sneak out your friends’ progress which may make you just feel so hurry up. Remember that success definitely cannot be in an instant time but this need a process for sure. Keep focus and be smart !

Learning Bahasa Indonesia! :)

"Indonesia is an archipelago country island if you want to know the brief version about Indonesia. Indonesia has thousands of small island and five big islands named Andalas, Java, Borneo, Sulawesi, and Papua. If you are about to visit Indonesia then, you need to read this article till finish!"

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Bali....!! Do you ever hear about Bali? Yes, this is the famous island in Indonesia which is also called paradise of the world. Just google the pics of the beauty of Bali! But do you know that the capital city of Indonesia is in Jakarta which is this city is located in Java. The national language of Indonesia is Bahasa but we have hundreds of spoken local language. But don't worry! You can use Bahasa to start you conversation.

Here are some greeting sentences in Bahasa (English to Bahasa)

Hello = Halo

Hi = Hi

How are you? = Apa kabar?

How do you do = Salam Kenal

Good morning = Selamat pagi

Good night = selamat malam

Bye = Daaaa!

Excuse me = Permisi

So on..... Learning bahasa is so easy! the pattern of the grammar resembles to English tenses only have bit different! If you are interested in learning bahasa and want to practice bahasa feel free to contact us in this website and ask more with  native. !!

Open Story for You About My Seeing A Dead Spirit in Dream

Hi, :) I've had ever been missed so much with the one that I love that is someone who has already dead. But, I don't want to mention who she is. I was been a close friend to her. I was so desperate when I knew that she was dead. I can't barely believe she has gone for forever. I don't even have a chance to share my love story to her. I don't even have chance to tell her my progress even I don't have any chance to say good bye to her. I was just like a fool not going to tell everything to her before her time. It's been a really hard time for every night I just cannot forget her laugh, her smiling teeth, her charm, her cleverness, and everything. 

Telling you about this my dear sweet readers makes me feel like there is a hurting small stone on my throat, it is just like recalling memory. I was someday really feeling missing her so much. It was the time when I just laid on my bed and suddenly remembering her. I cried a lot, I just blamed on my self why I just can't let her go. It was the hardest days after her gone. I just prayed to God that I believe in for her.Then, I fell asleep. 

I don't know if the psychology would say that this could be only our dream. But, It was between the hour 3.am t0 4 a.m, I was dreaming meeting her. In my dream, I was walking down to street after having lunch with friends and I suddenly saw a woman walking before me then she turned around. She was her, I was seeing her looking more beautiful but thinner. She was beautiful but I knew that we are in different world. I just then put my foot one step back. I was bit afraid but she was smiling at me. She was just gorgeous. Then, I woke up at it was 4.16 am. 

I was feeling unsecure and sad. I just don;t know what happened to me. Was it because I missed her much? I don't know I just prayed for her. Some people say it was just because I was missing her so much and for some It was a real her spirit that was sent by God through dream to seek pray for living man. I don't know but i was so real for me. She was different she was thinner last time I saw in my dream but more beautiful than she lived . For some belief say that the dream in between prime time to dawn time should be real. I am happy to have a chance to meet a eral her only in a dream. I know she is up there in better place. I believe that :). Thanks God you let me see her again though only on my dream. Allahumma firlaha warhamha waafiha wa'fuanha. Allahumma latahrimna ajraha wala taftinna ba'da ha wagfirlana walaha

A Marriage Tradition in Indonesia

It is really important to know the tradition of marriage in each country in this world.  The tradition of the marriage should be portraying the belief among society.  In Indonesia, there are available so many traditions like minangkabau marriage tradition,  batak marriage tradition,  javanese marriage tradition,  balinese marriage tradition, manado marriage tradition, and still many others.  See the next article of marriage tradition in Indonesia tommorow including the dress, the marriage stuff, the bow,  and all.

Being Judgemental for Married and Not Married

After marriage, woman and man would have their own kingdom. It seems that woman or manwould rule the house that she owns with her husband. They would become a mom and dad who manage their house. Nowadays people are all insulting people who do not choose to be unaccidentally not married.  It is not merely because single persons do not want to get married but only chances not let them to have love for once. It is ironic so many comics, memes, and parody that underestimating those who are not having loves or couples. These could be wrong since the life is all about the choices. 

This could not be true and as wrong deed if someone insulting the ones who are not married. We see now many married couples are unhappy because of their marriage. Also we see that there are single persons who are happy and enjoying their life. This life should be respectful for any kinds of the decision. We cannot judge people from their only covers and only for life decision. 

We sometime busy judging people condition without knowing the real reasons behind it all. We are often busy to think of ourselves and busy to make the standard and labeling. This could be so hard if someone is just being single and feeling stressful not getting married like the others. Respecting the life decision is important to avoid the labeling among society. Mostly people are blind to not to be a judgemental person. 

It is quite an issue after persons reach the age that is available for the age of marriage. They may feel stressful to make decision to get married.  Even when they see their friends are all getting married. These are the common issues for them and should not be bothering them as unmarried people anyway. It is because it doesn’t mean married people can rule the most life of unmarried. They should not be feeling that way.  People should have their own decision for life. And this private area is untouchable.  

Enemy Weirdo

One is for two and three

A giant star lives above the deep sea

You’re supposed to be a friend with me

Not to be just like kinda enemy

Joy of Married Woman

Tie a knot between two people and being celebrated is a heaven party celebration for those two newly married couple. They would decide to live together in sadness and happiness.  It is a joy and the end of the single life time. Married woman should be wiser than she is before. She should follow her husband, keep him, and love him as she could. The important part that she should know is that the world of hers should be like different since she decided to marry someone. Marriage is one of the biggest life decisions in woman’s life. Wedding party should not be as huge as they should invite much people like they don’t know who they are as like strangers. 

Economic should be the vital matter after marriage. Beside the responsibility as become parents also are important to think about for those two newly married couple. One main foundation is love but not such an egoism love which is those two married persons only love each other also the other families of both. Kid should be the one that receive the full love from both parents because they are responsible to their own children. Often people like to tie knot for their love but they do not mentally ready for kids. Having kids after marriage should be such responsibilities for parents. Married woman should know all about financial management, pregnancy things, and something called baby blues.

It is hard to change the people paradigm about marriage that is like something of the symbol of settle life. But then, it should be a quite stressful decision for those who know all the responsibilities. Woman should be smart to decide the right time to get married since settle life should not be indicated by marriage. We see lately that divorcement rate after short time marriage is happening all day. This is caused by rushed decision to get married. Woman may need to consider everything before marriage including her mental, career, and condition. 

It is ashamed if we judging career women do not want to have kids and the one that has unsettle life. Woman nowadays should be wiser. They are just having a right decision not to have kids since the one of the big job of the parents is educating children so that they become good persons. It is believed to be mistake of unresponsibilities if parents cannot make them as the way they are good. Married couple encouraged to understand how to educate their children also how to manage their love. It is often happening the one year to five to ten year marriage such conflicts. Those are indicating that the marriage life is still between in mentally unready. They should ones knowing each other and admit their own flaws. 

Marriage is not one thing that woman only seek to achieve only for legalize the love between two but legalize the life of responsible she had decided. Keeping mentally healthy after marriage is an important job. Accepting husband flaws and loving families is the important ones. It is not important to look like with very luxurious wedding party with many strangers coming and it is not all about celebrating sex! It is way far from those things and this way you decide to become wiser and understand in the name of responsibilities