Tie a knot between two people and
being celebrated is a heaven party celebration for those two newly married couple.
They would decide to live together in sadness and happiness. It is a joy and the end of the single life
time. Married woman should be wiser than she is before. She should follow her
husband, keep him, and love him as she could. The important part that she
should know is that the world of hers should be like different since she decided
to marry someone. Marriage is one of the biggest life decisions in woman’s
life. Wedding party should not be as huge as they should invite much people
like they don’t know who they are as like strangers.
Economic should be the vital
matter after marriage. Beside the responsibility as become parents also are
important to think about for those two newly married couple. One main
foundation is love but not such an egoism love which is those two married
persons only love each other also the other families of both. Kid should be the
one that receive the full love from both parents because they are responsible
to their own children. Often people like to tie knot for their love but they do
not mentally ready for kids. Having kids after marriage should be such responsibilities
for parents. Married woman should know all about financial management, pregnancy things, and something called baby blues.
It is hard to change the people
paradigm about marriage that is like something of the symbol of settle life. But
then, it should be a quite stressful decision for those who know all the responsibilities.
Woman should be smart to decide the right time to get married since settle life
should not be indicated by marriage. We see lately that divorcement rate after
short time marriage is happening all day. This is caused by rushed decision to
get married. Woman may need to consider everything before marriage including her
mental, career, and condition.
It is ashamed if we judging
career women do not want to have kids and the one that has unsettle life. Woman
nowadays should be wiser. They are just having a right decision not to have
kids since the one of the big job of the parents is educating children so that
they become good persons. It is believed to be mistake of unresponsibilities if
parents cannot make them as the way they are good. Married couple encouraged to
understand how to educate their children also how to manage their love. It is
often happening the one year to five to ten year marriage such conflicts. Those
are indicating that the marriage life is still between in mentally unready.
They should ones knowing each other and admit their own flaws.
Marriage is not one thing that
woman only seek to achieve only for legalize the love between two but legalize
the life of responsible she had decided. Keeping mentally healthy after
marriage is an important job. Accepting husband flaws and loving families is
the important ones. It is not important to look like with very luxurious
wedding party with many strangers coming and it is not all about celebrating
sex! It is way far from those things and this way you decide to become wiser
and understand in the name of responsibilities
