Tips Maintaining Long Distance Relationship

Having a long distance relationship may be sometime uncomfortable and make you always feel worry about him. There are some question speculation on your mind like what is he doing now? Does he cheat on me now? Is he hanging out with other girl now? Is he still loving me now? or many  anxious questions. Those questions may build your bad mood and affect to your relationship like you may be little bit more sensitive even to other people and him. Those anxiety may lead to your over possessiveness. Here are some tips to overcome your feeling during your long distance relationship.

1.      Positive thinking

Try to have positive thinking. It is the main important key to maintain long distance relationship. You need to respect your commitment in your relationship. If it is serious relationship than keep that by throwing away from your bad mind. You can try yoga as your daily exercise or other sports that can bring you a good mood and positive energy.

2.      Make yourself busy

This means you need to do activities everyday. Whatever it is like doing some home works, cooking, cleaning, working, hanging out with friends, or everything that can make you busy.

3.      Give him attention by keep your communication

Make everyday you communicate with him even only through test messages. You can chat with him for a while and build a good communication. Try to speak honest to him about your feeling. Make yourself trust on him.

4.      Send him a surprise

If it is a valentine day, you can send him a gift, a sweet gift only you and he know that. You can send flowers, love cards, chocolate, or even anything to him. This could make you win his heart.

5.      Meet up

It doesn’t mean if you have long distance relationship you can not meet him like forever. You need to arrange the schedule of meet up with him. You can visit his country or city or he could visit your country or city. If someday your schedule time is canceled try not to be angry to him. Make sure that there is the substitute day. Always make your meeting is possible.

6.      Pray

Only by pray for him and pray for your good relationship is the best way to cure your anxiety. All is in God’s hand. Ask God to make him love you in there and make your dream with him come true by the helps of your praying too. Good luck!